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Dear husband,
From the very beginning you were given to me by Allah. Nobody knows that better than Allah. Imagine! A while before I first met you, I had a private chat with Allah. Just after ending a long relationship, I said lovingly "my dear Allah, this time can I meet a guy 2 years from now, or even maybe 3!" So when I met you a few days afterward I wasn't searching, wasn't needing, wasn't expecting to fall in love. But who would of that, in just a few days, I fell in ‘like'. Yes, I was in denial, I didn't want to say love because how I could fall in love? Didn't I just pray that ill meet ‘him' in 2 years? But again I realize now, how Allah had intervene every step of the way. Remember how the first day I came home from Australia and told my family..it wasn't even 5 minutes for them to accept you! I was in shock! And remember how you told me your dad agreed for you to be with me, even though we haven't met! I thought that was funny.. And again after two years, the original plan was for us to get married in December, but then suddenly our families agreed it would be best for us to get married right away! In 3 weeks! Now I see how everything seemed to fall in place perfectly for us. Again, it wasn't me who looked and search for you, but every single step of the way it was Allah..it had always been Allah..
My dear husband,
That story made realize something I thought I knew, but now I truly understand. You are not mine, you are Allah's. Allah sent you to be with me in this life time. You are an amanah. Your are not here to to make me always happy, and do whatever I want you too. You see, during our time together I fell in love with you so much and was so happy to spend every single time with you, that I got lost along the way. I started having expectation that you were suppose to make me happy all the time! when you acted a certain way that I wasn't happy about, I was disappointed. I got confused again on what our relationship was about. But now I remember our marriage is not for you to always make me happy, or love me endlessly. From the very birth our purpose in this world was to become Allah's khalifah. My mother taught me that there is a divine role in all of us to do something in this world. Our parents raised us to be ready for Allah's task. And then I came along, to help you finish that task. Yes, I am here because Allah trust me, that I can help you unleash your most potential in life.
Dear husband,
When I tell you to do a certain things or act a certain way, and you don't want too, I realize now, I have no right to expect you to do things exactly as I say. I'm your supporter, but I cant make the decisions for you. You choose your own actions, because later on in judgment day, we will meet Allah alone. Your actions for you, my actions for me. I realize now that I am not always right, and I need to stop being such a woman! Trying to fix everything! From your birth Allah has taken care of you, gave you food, gave you family, gave you knowledge. Every step of the way Allah has guided you, and will continue to do so! And I know I need to give your own room to communicate with Allah, and let the Guider guide you to whatever great possibility you are in the world. Let you grow in your own time, exactly how Allah wants you too. Cos again, you are not mine,but you are Allah's.
Dear husband,
When someday I am trusted to become a mother, I see now just like you,our children are also not mine. I pray Allah to give me wisdom to help prepare them for life, and have the patience to let them grow at their own time. I know it takes some kids faster to learn something, and some kids longer. I know this because im one those kids that took ‘longer'. But on rough times, I hope I can always see them for who they truly are, Allah's khalifah. And just like how my mother have helped realize that we are all wonderful amazing beings! I hope we can help our children see that and realize their full potential. And I know the first step is to believe in our hearts that they truly are.
Dear husband,
Remember when I text you one day, the first page of a book that I read had a thank you note. I forgot the title of the book, but the thank you note stopped my heart. It summarize what I hope I can be for you, and you for me.
My dear husband Andri Vyatran,
The man whose love and support allows me to fulfill my greatest potential.
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